I was adopted, however, my adoptive parents provided me something my mother wanted me to have at the age of 16.
It was a letter that told me a lot about what happened, and why she didn’t raise me.
She talked about my father, who was a courageous hero serving in the military, but he passed away in the war. She talked about how he used to be a Heating, Ventilation & A/C specialist before he joined the military. She was saying how he wished so much that he just kept on with his work as a Heating, Ventilation & A/C technician, but he felt he could make a difference if he served in the military. So evidently, my father was a skilled Heating, Ventilation & A/C company who decided to bet a Veteran, but he didn’t make it. It was particularly distraught although I never knew either of them. She also provided contact information for a way to get a hold of his if I wanted to reach out. I ended up reaching out plus the two of us entirely had a pretty superb talk. While I was worried that she didn’t choose to take care of his own son, I believe I could understand the struggle behind it. So the two of us started hanging out so that we could get to know each other. It was kind of awkward because he kept saying how I would make a superb Heating, Ventilation & A/C company just like my father, although I wasn’t sure if I wanted to work in the heating plus cooling industry. That was something for me to guess about.