I have been dating my boyfriend for almost four years now and I have loved all of the time that I have spent with him.
We make eachother laugh like crazy, we always go on fun adventures, and there isn’t any room for boredom to creep up in our relationship thanks to how crazy each of us are.
The only long term point of conflict that we have had during these past three years is the fact that my boyfriend doesn’t want to move in together yet. I would understand this if he had a valid reason, but the only thing that he tells me is that he doesn’t want to leave his roommates and force them to look for another roommate. I hate this because I can’t stand going to his house. They don’t have air conditioning, they leave food all over the place, and their roommates stay up until late in the night even on school nights. Over at my place however, I have a well working air conditioning unit, the place is clean, and I don’t have any annoying roommates. Whenever I have to hang out at this place because he wants to watch a movie with the guys I feel like I am either going to catch a disease from touching moldy food or pass out due to a lack of air conditioning in the hot and claustrophobic room. Sooner or later he is going to have to make a choice between moving in together so we can live as a couple or stay living with his friends, because I don’t think I can deal with this arrangement much longer.