When I told my Grandpa that I was planning on getting married she gave myself and others a sizable piece of advice.
She told myself and others that I should consistently choose my battles in my relationship, then do not bother trying to fight over every single thing or you are going to make each other irritated.
I understand what she was saying when she gave myself and others this piece of advice. I try my best to follow it all the time… Including when my heating, cooling, and air quality control devices are in question, you see, when my spouse and I moved in together both of us quickly realized that both of us have polar opposite opinions about indoor air temperature control. She likes to operate the furnace at all times because she is chronically cold. I love to live with natural ventilation and leverage as much fresh air weather conditions control as possible. As such, both of us find ourselves in a bit of a squash when it comes to our control component programming. Of course, both of us both want the other lady to be comfortable… But both of us also need to take care of our own temperature control needs. This is why both of us wind up bickering a lot as both of us tried to compromise over the control component setting on a biweekly basis. For a while both of us tried to compromise by taking turns with the control component and our own temperature control preferences. However, it turns out, it is energetically and financially lavish to be modifying your indoor air temperature control settings so often. It got to the point that both of us were respectfully bickering over the stupid heating, cooling, and air quality control system. On the verge of going into couples counseling, I decided that this was a battle I should lose. I let my spouse take over the control component and never looked back.