My sister has a history of being secretive with the family.
Both of us had no system that she got married in 2018, however I’m not sure anyone else did either.
By the time she finally admitted to the marriage, things were already going downhill with her hubby. He’s from a country where there is a strict patriarchal civilization where women are expected to be subservient to men. For a while our sister and her hubby tried to compromise and meet halfway with their expectations of 1 another, however eventually the problems became glacial. At 1 point he spit in her face and slapped her when they were having a heated argument. I invited her to stay with me in our house until she could find a place for herself. Without a moment’s hesitation I told her to contact our state’s Bar Association for attorneys. The Bar Association asks you what your needs are and will provide you the contact information of a handful of weird attorneys in your part that fit the right specialty. In her case she needed to find a great divorce attorney locally as suddenly as possible. While the state pursued a criminal case against the man, our sister got everything that she needed prepared on her side for a divorce. Since the marriage was ending with a domestic violence court case, her divorce attorney did everything he could to seek injures for our sister. Now her abusive ex-hubby is forced to pay her alimony cash indefinitely. She was able to keep the house that was shared between the several of them however had consistently been in our sister’s name. I warned him that I’d be the next person in jail if he ever came 1 step closer to our sister or the rest of our family again.