My sibling had dated her bestie Matt for six years and finally got married.
He was against marriage from the start but she pushed him into it.
However it seemed that instantly after getting married, he changed as a person. Matt stopped laboring, spent all her money and never spent any time with their newborn babies… Finally our sibling had enough and filed for divorce. Finding the right divorce lawyer was not easy either. Devorce/family law is a tricky thing too! In this case, Matt was a horrible father and did not deserve the children! He also wanted a bunch of money to support himself and claimed it as child support; The lawyer that our sibling picked up was a lifesaver. The woman totally got the situation and did a great task at helping her out. First they negotiated the custody case. Matt only gets the kids every other weekend and gets hardly anything in child support. She is the main parent and doesn’t have to supply him with much. The only thing she is stuck right now doing is paying her rent and small amounts each month for food. While that isn’t fun, it is not the worst situation. That the lawyer got our sibling the majority of custody without chopping her bank account up and I am impressed. The divorce costs and lawyer costs were quite sizable. But again, it could have been way worse of a situation for her.