It has been a number of years since I’ve been in a relationship with a woman, however my last girlfriend drifted apart from me after my buddy and I had been dating for 4 years straight.
I assume my buddy and I were weird people at the end of the relationship and at the start. After talking to a therapist about it, I learned that that is a common thing to happen for relationships after so much time. It’s especially applicable with people who are younger, and you grow a lot in your twenties and even your early thirties, so people end up being weird than they were once they get to older ages. If your relationship doesn’t evolve with the natural pollution of each person, you’re going to drift apart. Thankfully that’s not the case with the current lady I am in a relationship with. We have so much in common and we are really great at resolving any conflicts that my buddy and I have. It’s really nice to be in a relationship with somebody that I cherish so much and want to continue to be with for the rest of my life. It’s so nice when I assume about her and everything that we’ve done and shared together. I met her working at the heating and cooling store. Apparently she was a former Heating and A/C specialist and was doing retail work at the heating and cooling store, but now that we are dating I’ve learned more about a/cs and boilers than what I’ve known in my entire life, she actually helped me repair a problem with my a/c the other day and I didn’t even have to call my Heating and A/C specialist to do it. She still has certifications and licenses so she can technically work on my heating and cooling system without voiding the warranty.