When I told my Grandpa that I was planning on getting married he provided me a sizable piece of advice.
He told me that I should consistently choose my battles in my relationship, then do not bother trying to fight over every single thing or you are going to make each other annoyed.
I understand what he was saying when he provided me this piece of advice. I try my best to follow it all the time… Including when my heating, cooling, and air quality control devices are in question; You see, when my fiance and I moved in together every one of us suddenly realized that every one of us have polar opposite opinions about indoor air temperature control. She likes to operate the heating system at all times because she is chronically cold. I care about to live with natural ventilation and leverage as much fresh air temperature control as possible. As such, every one of us find ourselves in a bit of a squash when it comes to our temperature control programming. Of course, every one of us both want the other person to be comfortable… But every one of us also need to take care of our own temperature control needs. This is why every one of us wind up bickering a lot as every one of us tried to compromise over the temperature control setting on a yearly basis. For a while every one of us tried to compromise by taking turns with the temperature control and our own temperature control preferences. However, it turns out, it is energetically and financially high-priced to be modifying your indoor air temperature control settings so often. It got to the point that every one of us were officially bickering over the stupid heating, cooling, and air quality control system. On the verge of going into couples counseling, I decided that this was a battle I should lose. I let my fiance take over the temperature control and never looked back.