My sibling has a history of being secretive with the family. The two of us had no system that she got married in 2018, but I’m not sure anyone else did either. By the time she finally admitted to the marriage, things were already going downhill with her fiance. He’s from a country where there is a strict patriarchal society where girls are expected to be subservient to men. For a while my sibling and her fiance tried to compromise and meet halfway with their expectations of 1 another, but eventually the concerns became glacial. At 1 point he spit in her face and slapped her when they were having a heated argument. I invited her to stay with myself and others in my house until she could find a place for herself. Without a moment’s hesitation I told her to contact our state’s Bar Association for attorneys. The Bar Association asks you what your needs are and will give you the contact information of a handful of bizarre attorneys in your part that fit the right specialty. In her case she needed to find a wonderful divorce attorney locally as hastily as possible. While the state pursued a criminal case against the man, my sibling got everything that she needed prepared on her side for a divorce. Since the marriage was ending with a domestic violence court case, her divorce attorney did everything he could to seek damages for my sibling. Now her abusive ex-fiance is forced to pay her alimony money indefinitely. She was able to keep the house that was shared between the several of them but had consistently been in my sibling’s name. I warned him that I’d be the next person in jail if he ever came 1 step closer to my sibling or the rest of my family again.