It doesn’t matter what I say or do, my husband isn’t happy with me.
I am beginning to think that a lot of his unrest is because of the pandemic.
We haven’t had any chance to get away from each other. I know that I am getting frustrated and tired of looking at his face. We have never been people who fought a lot, but it seems that is the only thing we are getting done. The other day, he was actually yelling at me because it was too hot in the house. I had the air conditioning on, and I didn’t know what he wanted me to do. He told me I had to turn the thermostat lower or he was leaving. I put on a sweater and lowered the thermostat. Then, he was upset because he thought I was making a point by changing the thermostat. I called my mom and asked if she had any ideas for me. She told me that everyone was getting frustrated with being cooped up. We were all suffering from cabin fever. She said that if most of our arguments were over the thermostat, maybe I should call the HvAC company. She wanted to know if we had Zone Control. When she told me what Zone Control was, I hung up and called the HVAC company. I had to take some money out of our reserve savings, but it was worth having the Zone Control installed. He can now go into another room, adjust the thermostat and cool off before biting my head off. Our marriage has become a lot less rocky and it is improving every day.