My brother’s girlfriend Tammy and I have nothing in common.
The two of us have tried to talk or bond over multiple topics.
Nothing seems to work out and most of the time, we end up in awkward silence. I thought I had the thing that was going to bond us. I signed Tammy and I up for a group fitness class two days a week. The class is for females who want to build their upper body. A lot of arm drills are geared toward men that use their chests and shoulders. I want toned arms, not man’s arms. The training class is super great and I just love the personal trainer. The guy is a total physco. He yells at us to move our butts and makes the drills go longer and harder frequently. We do a lot of work with weighted poles, ropes and balls. Some of it is partner based, but most is whole group where the trainer berates you if you want to give up. There is no slacking off in this class. I look forward to the group physical training class every time it comes up. I would go more than two days a week if Tammy was down for it. She hates the class though and whines each time we go. She says that the personal trainer is mean and that she doesn’t want to build upper body. She sees no point in the class and wants to slack. I am appalled by her behavior and have thought about telling her not to come anymore. She is ruining a really good thing for me.